If my state doesn’t allow emancipation, what else can I do as far as emancipation goes?

While under PA law there is no set procedure to get a declaration of emancipation from a court, emancipation is allowed. Additionally, certain events automatically result in a minor becoming emancipated. They include marriage (which you want to wait on; good thinking) or entry into the military. Also, a minor can be emancipated in order receive a specific benefit/service that government agencies provide. As a general rule, these agencies have the authority to decide if a minor is emancipated for purposes of authorizing benefits/services that they administer.

Absent any of the above circumstances you would have to go to court and request a hearing regarding your emancipation. In order to make a ruling the court will need certain necessary information, including but not limited to: whether you are currently living with your parents or guardians; whether you are dependent on your parents for financial support; whether your parents agree that you should be independent; whether your parents are actually exercising control and authority over you; whether you can financially support yourself, etc.

Note:  If you are successful in being judicially emancipated state law requires that you must still stay in school until age 17 (or until age 16 so long as you have a job during school hours and hold an employment certificate).  Furthermore, your parents or guardians will no longer required to give you any financial support; this also includes food, housing, clothing or any other assistance.

At this point, you should try to get some counseling or legal assistance.  Talk to a school counselor, minister, or other trusted adult.  You can also try Legal Aid, a law school free clinic (if there is one close by to where you live), or contact the state/county bar association for "pro bono" (free) legal advice.